How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!    Meet Big&Beautiful Real Singles Now!

By GHM36214, Texas, United States.

3 simple tips to start a conversation---For BBW and plusfriends Dating

Starting a conversation can be relatively simple...but then there are those of you who are socially awkward. So here are a few tips when attempting to start a conversation with a person of interest:

1. Talk about the weather (without sounding too corny & cliche) "Lovely weather we're having" ..sounds a bit dry & old fashioned.. "So I heard it supposed to be almost 65 today...that's way better than it usually is this time of year" ...much better.

2. Give her a compliment! Women love compliments!! Just remember....don't go too overboard with it. "Damn...you got amazing tits" .....NOO!! "You have the most gorgeous eyes" ...much more flattering. Try to notice the lesser noticed details such as her eyes, teeth, smile or hair instead of pointing out how amazing her body is.

3. Introduce yourself! Be direct & forward. Try not to be shy...and shake all fears of rejection! A woman loves a man who knows what he wants! "Hey there gorgeous. I just happened to notice you sitting here & I just could not live with myself if I didn't come over here & introduce myself. I'm John..and you are? ...very inviting, friendly, beat"

By Damitajo, Michigan, United States

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Ask for more at an appropriate time - take the time to get to know the person!

Everyone has body issues. It doesn't matter if you're male, female, size 6 or size 56, we all have body issues. We can all find fault with something when we look in the mirror. The beauty of this site is that it's about being a BBW/BHM and we shouldn't have the pressures of being judged based on size. When that pressure is removed, confidence issues disappear, too.

When you're getting to know someone, get to know them based on what is on the inside. Don't use the excuse "I have several pictures on my profile showing me" as a reason to be rude and demanding full length pictures of someone else. If they felt comfortable putting those pictures on their profile, they would. 

Get to know the person as a whole and when they are comfortable, they will show you more. By asking for more at an inappropriate time, the other person sees you a pushy chubby chaser and nothing more. Take the time to discover interesting things about each other and things you have in common. The more time you spend establishing trust, the more you will receive.

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Dating Do's and Don't, in black and white.

Dating Do's and Don't, in black and white.

Don't be late. It's rude to keep anyone waiting, including your date! Be respectful of your date if you smoke. Don't be rude. No matter what type of day you've had, be polite to your date. Don't jump past first base to third. Unless you've already established a relationship with your sweetie, don't become all hands as she or he fights you off! Do ask his or her opinion. Don't act as if the date is all about what "you want to do". 

Do pay for the meal, movie, event, etc. This holds true if you invited the other person, regardless of your gender, unless you have an understanding between the two of you. Do consider your attire. This doesn't mean you have to blow your savings on a designer suit. However, consideration involves not openly trying to embarrass the person whom you are with. Anyone can put on a clean shirt and pressed pants. Don't cheat.

 By that I mean, don't play the field if your girlfriend or boyfriend thinks the two of you are in a monogamous relationship. While it is perfectly okay to see more than one person, be sure that both parties understand and agree to this arrangement! Finally, don't battle for control. If you have to be the alpha-dog, try not to be so obvious about it!              Welcome to BBWMatch.org! Meet Big&Beautiful Real Singles Now!

By brooke0928, Michigan, United States