The # 1 rule in attraction

>>I've always been obsessed with reading dating articles. My friends always come to me asking for my dating advice. So I noticed a recurring theme to all questions I've been asked: Why aren't they attracted to me?

>>The answer is simple: To be attractive to someone else, you have to be attractive to yourself.

>>This isn't about looking good to yourself. You're always going to think that you need puffy-eye-reduction or a tan or whatever, this is about FEELING good.

>>If you perceive yourself as too fat, too neurotic, too wimpy, too whatever, others are going to see you that way, also.
And I'm not the only one who thinks this. Remember when your grandmother used to say: "In order to be loved by others, you have to love yourself first?" Yeah, didn't think Nanny Jane would have a point, huh?




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Don't Make Assumptions Based on Profiles - Ask questions instead!

Catch yourself from making miscommunication errors before your feelings are hurt. 

Try to be clear in your written contact, and ask questions to help gauge that the other person understands what you mean. Also - when reading what others have written, try not to assume anything that isn't written.

 Potential matches won't be offended if you ask questions - and asking is a great way to break the ice!

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Girl : Am I pretty?
Boy : NO.
Girl : Do you want to be with me forever?
Boy : NO.
Girl : Would you cry if I walked away?
... ... Boy : NO.

She heard enough, and was hurt. She walked away, tears ran down her face. The boy grabbed her arm.
Boy : Your not pretty, your beautiful. I don't want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever. And I wouldn't cry if you walked away, I would DIE.
(Boy whispers) : Please? Stay with me.
(Girl whispers) : I will.
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you. Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm. Tomorrow it could be anywhere. Get ready for the biggest shock of your life! If you don't post this to 5 other pages. You will have relationship problems for the next 10 years

 

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Show BBW pride with these photo tips

1. Post photos of full-body shots, or multiple photos of different angles that give an overall complete representation of yourself. This goes for all girls, especially BBWs. Guys want and need to see you, girls!

2. Perhaps a corollary to the above; don't just post dimly-lit shots that obscure what you might really look like. Photoshop, glamour shots, Myspace angles, they do nobody any good in the end and make you appear deceptive.

3. Post pictures that show some depth and variety in your personality. That means finding a few pics where you're not making a duckface. Guys like the body, but showing some emotions goes a long way towards attracting a partner.

4. Get rid of your friends! We hate it when all your pics are you AND ten other friends, where only half your face is visible. Especially if it's your main profile pic.

These are some thoughts I've accumulated over using several online dating sites. As a BBW fan, I wish more plus-size girls would have the confidence to post more than just a high-contrast head shot. We get that you're reluctant, it just turns off the guys who enjoy curvier women. Quit subscribing to what the media says you should look like and show off who you really are!
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7 Tips what not to do on your first date

There are some things you must not do when you first meet someone in person. These have been collected from personal experiences of mine and my friends:

1. Be on time for the date. If you are going to be late, definitely text the person(these days, everyone has a cell with texting) and let him/her know.

2. Do not use a cell phone at all unless it is a dire emergency (and only then, excuse yourself from the table with apologies and a promise to be right back, explain it is urgent).

3. Dress appropriately! No sexy or revealing attire. Wear a nice wardrobe, no wrinkled shirts, no scruffy shoes!

4. Stay focused on the other person. Ask questions about his/her life. Do NOT get too personal with religion, exes, politics just yet!

5. Be nice to the waiter/waitress and tip generously!

6. Let the date last up to 2 hours. Any longer, you will tend to overshare yourself with too much detail. Save some for the second date!

7. For men, ask the woman if she wants to meet again (provided you like her).
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How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!

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Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE - Sex has changed!
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Sexual intercourse has changed with the new generations and it depends on where you were grew up. No one can ask you or pressure you for something that you are not 100% sure you want to do.

Every time I date a new person. I wait a few weeks to feel comfortable to share privacy in the bedroom.

I never have sex without a condom and when I'm ready to do it. I ask to see the results of a STD test. People has laughed at me and think I'm crazy or over reacting.

Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE. Making love is something amazing that needs to be done the right way, emotionally and physically prepared. When you do it the right way you enjoy it 10 times more!

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