Show BBW pride with these photo tips

1. Post photos of full-body shots, or multiple photos of different angles that give an overall complete representation of yourself. This goes for all girls, especially BBWs. Guys want and need to see you, girls!

2. Perhaps a corollary to the above; don't just post dimly-lit shots that obscure what you might really look like. Photoshop, glamour shots, Myspace angles, they do nobody any good in the end and make you appear deceptive.

3. Post pictures that show some depth and variety in your personality. That means finding a few pics where you're not making a duckface. Guys like the body, but showing some emotions goes a long way towards attracting a partner.

4. Get rid of your friends! We hate it when all your pics are you AND ten other friends, where only half your face is visible. Especially if it's your main profile pic.

These are some thoughts I've accumulated over using several online dating sites. As a BBW fan, I wish more plus-size girls would have the confidence to post more than just a high-contrast head shot. We get that you're reluctant, it just turns off the guys who enjoy curvier women. Quit subscribing to what the media says you should look like and show off who you really are!
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7 Tips what not to do on your first date

There are some things you must not do when you first meet someone in person. These have been collected from personal experiences of mine and my friends:

1. Be on time for the date. If you are going to be late, definitely text the person(these days, everyone has a cell with texting) and let him/her know.

2. Do not use a cell phone at all unless it is a dire emergency (and only then, excuse yourself from the table with apologies and a promise to be right back, explain it is urgent).

3. Dress appropriately! No sexy or revealing attire. Wear a nice wardrobe, no wrinkled shirts, no scruffy shoes!

4. Stay focused on the other person. Ask questions about his/her life. Do NOT get too personal with religion, exes, politics just yet!

5. Be nice to the waiter/waitress and tip generously!

6. Let the date last up to 2 hours. Any longer, you will tend to overshare yourself with too much detail. Save some for the second date!

7. For men, ask the woman if she wants to meet again (provided you like her).
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How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!

By GHM36214, Texas, United States

from www.BbwDatinglove.com

Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE - Sex has changed!
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Sexual intercourse has changed with the new generations and it depends on where you were grew up. No one can ask you or pressure you for something that you are not 100% sure you want to do.

Every time I date a new person. I wait a few weeks to feel comfortable to share privacy in the bedroom.

I never have sex without a condom and when I'm ready to do it. I ask to see the results of a STD test. People has laughed at me and think I'm crazy or over reacting.

Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE. Making love is something amazing that needs to be done the right way, emotionally and physically prepared. When you do it the right way you enjoy it 10 times more!

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How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!    Meet Big&Beautiful Real Singles Now!

By GHM36214, Texas, United States.

3 simple tips to start a conversation---For BBW and plusfriends Dating

Starting a conversation can be relatively simple...but then there are those of you who are socially awkward. So here are a few tips when attempting to start a conversation with a person of interest:

1. Talk about the weather (without sounding too corny & cliche) "Lovely weather we're having" ..sounds a bit dry & old fashioned.. "So I heard it supposed to be almost 65 today...that's way better than it usually is this time of year" ...much better.

2. Give her a compliment! Women love compliments!! Just remember....don't go too overboard with it. "Damn...you got amazing tits" .....NOO!! "You have the most gorgeous eyes" ...much more flattering. Try to notice the lesser noticed details such as her eyes, teeth, smile or hair instead of pointing out how amazing her body is.

3. Introduce yourself! Be direct & forward. Try not to be shy...and shake all fears of rejection! A woman loves a man who knows what he wants! "Hey there gorgeous. I just happened to notice you sitting here & I just could not live with myself if I didn't come over here & introduce myself. I'm John..and you are? ...very inviting, friendly, beat"

By Damitajo, Michigan, United States

from www.BBWMatch.org

Ask for more at an appropriate time - take the time to get to know the person!

Everyone has body issues. It doesn't matter if you're male, female, size 6 or size 56, we all have body issues. We can all find fault with something when we look in the mirror. The beauty of this site is that it's about being a BBW/BHM and we shouldn't have the pressures of being judged based on size. When that pressure is removed, confidence issues disappear, too.

When you're getting to know someone, get to know them based on what is on the inside. Don't use the excuse "I have several pictures on my profile showing me" as a reason to be rude and demanding full length pictures of someone else. If they felt comfortable putting those pictures on their profile, they would. 

Get to know the person as a whole and when they are comfortable, they will show you more. By asking for more at an inappropriate time, the other person sees you a pushy chubby chaser and nothing more. Take the time to discover interesting things about each other and things you have in common. The more time you spend establishing trust, the more you will receive.

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