Guys, Be delicate with your BBW partners' past to get to know them better

It's all well and good to take the advice of tippers here and take pride in the fact that you are big or your partner is. Sometimes, though, it might be difficult for your partner to feel that way, especially at first. There are many societies in the world that stigmatize weighty people, even if it is the norm! This could result in a range of emotions from your partner should you start dating.

One possibility is that they may have not dated much, in which case they may not be accustomed to the attention they get. A BBW with self-esteem or self-image issues isn't necessarily the most common type you'll find but it's still possible. They may seem shy, or their shyness may come off as them being emotionally closed off and unwilling to initiate contact. It could be viewed as a cold shoulder. You should understand that this may not be the case. It's quite possible that this person is just as lonely as you are, and is looking for love, and may not know how to show it. Just as there is a stigma against being heavy, there's also a stigma against portraying heavy people who love and have normal human desires. There are few examples to follow.

Note there are lots of bbws out there who have dated a lot, suffer no self-esteem issues, and have had a lot of experience, both good and bad. This is not a generalization. You really won't know until you find out! It's considered bad dating etiquette to open the "EX-File" too soon, but this is about knowing what you can so that you are both the most comfortable that you can be!

You really must communicate with your partner to see how they feel, what choices count as moving too fast, and what goes too slow.

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Be honest about who you are and what you look like. Be proud of your size and inner and outer beauty. I have been told there is nothing more beautiful than a confident woman. So hold your head up high.

As a woman the same goes for men confidence is very attractive.

Know who you are first and let others know the real you from the get go... Have fun, isn't that what dating is all about???

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Almost too obvious ways for a great relationship, which is mostly forgotten!

Have you ever wondered what sets off the opposite sex? Well here are somethings not to do for your relationship to go a lot smoother.

First the guys. Ladies guys need sex every once in awhile so give it to them every other day or two.Also when they cry don't try to be there for them, just let them deal with it their way because they feel emasculated and they don't like that. Also don't accuse them of cheating and let them watch their sports. Do this and they will be happy.

Next its the women. Guys, ladies love the sweet surprises so go put on some slow music, get a dozen roses, and let them know how much you care and love them. When they are down be there for them and listen to their problems and use your brain to figure out how to make them happy again.

Also when you screw up and make them sad,no matter how much you don't want to, apologize and admit you were wrong. Just try to let them know they are the most important thing in the world to you. Take them out unexpectedly. Do that then its all good.

The # 1 rule in attraction

>>I've always been obsessed with reading dating articles. My friends always come to me asking for my dating advice. So I noticed a recurring theme to all questions I've been asked: Why aren't they attracted to me?

>>The answer is simple: To be attractive to someone else, you have to be attractive to yourself.

>>This isn't about looking good to yourself. You're always going to think that you need puffy-eye-reduction or a tan or whatever, this is about FEELING good.

>>If you perceive yourself as too fat, too neurotic, too wimpy, too whatever, others are going to see you that way, also.
And I'm not the only one who thinks this. Remember when your grandmother used to say: "In order to be loved by others, you have to love yourself first?" Yeah, didn't think Nanny Jane would have a point, huh?




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Don't Make Assumptions Based on Profiles - Ask questions instead!

Catch yourself from making miscommunication errors before your feelings are hurt. 

Try to be clear in your written contact, and ask questions to help gauge that the other person understands what you mean. Also - when reading what others have written, try not to assume anything that isn't written.

 Potential matches won't be offended if you ask questions - and asking is a great way to break the ice!

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Girl : Am I pretty?
Boy : NO.
Girl : Do you want to be with me forever?
Boy : NO.
Girl : Would you cry if I walked away?
... ... Boy : NO.

She heard enough, and was hurt. She walked away, tears ran down her face. The boy grabbed her arm.
Boy : Your not pretty, your beautiful. I don't want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever. And I wouldn't cry if you walked away, I would DIE.
(Boy whispers) : Please? Stay with me.
(Girl whispers) : I will.
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you. Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm. Tomorrow it could be anywhere. Get ready for the biggest shock of your life! If you don't post this to 5 other pages. You will have relationship problems for the next 10 years

 

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Show BBW pride with these photo tips

1. Post photos of full-body shots, or multiple photos of different angles that give an overall complete representation of yourself. This goes for all girls, especially BBWs. Guys want and need to see you, girls!

2. Perhaps a corollary to the above; don't just post dimly-lit shots that obscure what you might really look like. Photoshop, glamour shots, Myspace angles, they do nobody any good in the end and make you appear deceptive.

3. Post pictures that show some depth and variety in your personality. That means finding a few pics where you're not making a duckface. Guys like the body, but showing some emotions goes a long way towards attracting a partner.

4. Get rid of your friends! We hate it when all your pics are you AND ten other friends, where only half your face is visible. Especially if it's your main profile pic.

These are some thoughts I've accumulated over using several online dating sites. As a BBW fan, I wish more plus-size girls would have the confidence to post more than just a high-contrast head shot. We get that you're reluctant, it just turns off the guys who enjoy curvier women. Quit subscribing to what the media says you should look like and show off who you really are!
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7 Tips what not to do on your first date

There are some things you must not do when you first meet someone in person. These have been collected from personal experiences of mine and my friends:

1. Be on time for the date. If you are going to be late, definitely text the person(these days, everyone has a cell with texting) and let him/her know.

2. Do not use a cell phone at all unless it is a dire emergency (and only then, excuse yourself from the table with apologies and a promise to be right back, explain it is urgent).

3. Dress appropriately! No sexy or revealing attire. Wear a nice wardrobe, no wrinkled shirts, no scruffy shoes!

4. Stay focused on the other person. Ask questions about his/her life. Do NOT get too personal with religion, exes, politics just yet!

5. Be nice to the waiter/waitress and tip generously!

6. Let the date last up to 2 hours. Any longer, you will tend to overshare yourself with too much detail. Save some for the second date!

7. For men, ask the woman if she wants to meet again (provided you like her).
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How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!

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Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE - Sex has changed!
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Sexual intercourse has changed with the new generations and it depends on where you were grew up. No one can ask you or pressure you for something that you are not 100% sure you want to do.

Every time I date a new person. I wait a few weeks to feel comfortable to share privacy in the bedroom.

I never have sex without a condom and when I'm ready to do it. I ask to see the results of a STD test. People has laughed at me and think I'm crazy or over reacting.

Don't feel embarrassed for being SAFE. Making love is something amazing that needs to be done the right way, emotionally and physically prepared. When you do it the right way you enjoy it 10 times more!

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How to fasten your online dating seat belt?

>>First, honesty is the best policy. It's better to speak the truth than mislead someone. Eventually it will prevail & acquire you more respect.

>>Second, if a potential match / friend is being too pushy personal or aggressive & is making you uncomfortable, say so immediately. It is nice to consider other peoples feelings but you also have feelings. Trust your instincts.

>>Third, communicate more via internet before giving your phone number. Take your time!Valuable friendship & love doesn't happen instantly.

>>Fourth, never give financial or personal identification information to an online date or instant recipe for Identity Theft.

>>Fifth, never give your home / work address to an online date. First & possible second date should always be in public. Although sometimes embarrassing it's good to let someone (friend or family) know you're meeting a stranger. It's easier to walk away from a date than having to call law enforcement into your personal space.

>>Sixth, when traveling to meet an online date always again tell someone you meeting a stranger & give them your dates name & contact information. If possible, also give them a copy of your itinerary. Always have your separate accommodations. If your date goes sour, you're not left out in the street without a place to stay. Not pretty & very degrading / embarrassing. In conclusion, always have a plan B. Again take your time & trust your instincts. It's better to be safe than sorry!    Meet Big&Beautiful Real Singles Now!

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3 simple tips to start a conversation---For BBW and plusfriends Dating

Starting a conversation can be relatively simple...but then there are those of you who are socially awkward. So here are a few tips when attempting to start a conversation with a person of interest:

1. Talk about the weather (without sounding too corny & cliche) "Lovely weather we're having" ..sounds a bit dry & old fashioned.. "So I heard it supposed to be almost 65 today...that's way better than it usually is this time of year" ...much better.

2. Give her a compliment! Women love compliments!! Just remember....don't go too overboard with it. "Damn...you got amazing tits" .....NOO!! "You have the most gorgeous eyes" ...much more flattering. Try to notice the lesser noticed details such as her eyes, teeth, smile or hair instead of pointing out how amazing her body is.

3. Introduce yourself! Be direct & forward. Try not to be shy...and shake all fears of rejection! A woman loves a man who knows what he wants! "Hey there gorgeous. I just happened to notice you sitting here & I just could not live with myself if I didn't come over here & introduce myself. I'm John..and you are? ...very inviting, friendly, beat"

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Ask for more at an appropriate time - take the time to get to know the person!

Everyone has body issues. It doesn't matter if you're male, female, size 6 or size 56, we all have body issues. We can all find fault with something when we look in the mirror. The beauty of this site is that it's about being a BBW/BHM and we shouldn't have the pressures of being judged based on size. When that pressure is removed, confidence issues disappear, too.

When you're getting to know someone, get to know them based on what is on the inside. Don't use the excuse "I have several pictures on my profile showing me" as a reason to be rude and demanding full length pictures of someone else. If they felt comfortable putting those pictures on their profile, they would. 

Get to know the person as a whole and when they are comfortable, they will show you more. By asking for more at an inappropriate time, the other person sees you a pushy chubby chaser and nothing more. Take the time to discover interesting things about each other and things you have in common. The more time you spend establishing trust, the more you will receive.

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Dating Do's and Don't, in black and white.

Dating Do's and Don't, in black and white.

Don't be late. It's rude to keep anyone waiting, including your date! Be respectful of your date if you smoke. Don't be rude. No matter what type of day you've had, be polite to your date. Don't jump past first base to third. Unless you've already established a relationship with your sweetie, don't become all hands as she or he fights you off! Do ask his or her opinion. Don't act as if the date is all about what "you want to do". 

Do pay for the meal, movie, event, etc. This holds true if you invited the other person, regardless of your gender, unless you have an understanding between the two of you. Do consider your attire. This doesn't mean you have to blow your savings on a designer suit. However, consideration involves not openly trying to embarrass the person whom you are with. Anyone can put on a clean shirt and pressed pants. Don't cheat.

 By that I mean, don't play the field if your girlfriend or boyfriend thinks the two of you are in a monogamous relationship. While it is perfectly okay to see more than one person, be sure that both parties understand and agree to this arrangement! Finally, don't battle for control. If you have to be the alpha-dog, try not to be so obvious about it!              Welcome to BBWMatch.org! Meet Big&Beautiful Real Singles Now!

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